I recently turned twenty -four years old, and now I live in the capital, but I was born and grew up in a small town. After graduating from the university in the capital, I found a job and fell in love with a secured indigenous resident, who later became my husband. We signed a marriage certificate when I was in the fifth month of pregnancy. By the way, pregnancy was difficult, and most of the last trimester I spent in hospital. My mother -in -law was a great support at this time, drove me to hospital receptions and bought all the necessary medicines.

Childbirth was also difficult, and my daughter had to spend several days in the children’s intensive care department and two months under the strict supervision of doctors. Despite this, my daughter has discovered the morale and is now on the way to recovery. When we returned home, we started drawing up our daughter’s documents, including birth and registration certificate. However, when trying to register it in the apartment in which we lived, which belongs to my mother -in -law, we faced difficulties. The mother of the man did not allow us to register the baby, although it was necessary to receive assistance and staging for kindergarten.

My husband’s mother loves her granddaughter and takes care of her, but she is concerned about what happens if we part. She did not allow us to prescribe her daughter in her apartment and proposes to wait for at least five years before considering this issue. I do not understand her anxiety and feel disappointed and the image that she does not want to help us in this important process. My husband retains neutrality in this conflict, and I feel that the two -way mother -in -law can destroy our relationship. I will break in the meanwhile to pretend that everything is fine and wait for my mother -in -law to change my mind whether to insist on my own. In general, as a mother, I feel that my duty is to act in favor of my child and to gain courage to defend her needs.