
When my married daughter was asked to stay with me for a few days, I realized that she had something not smoothly in her life, and here it turned out an unexpected.
My daughter’s marriage was not as successful as it seemed sideways. Although my son -in -law has an apartment – it is only a small one -bedroom apartment that his mother kunked for him. My daughter does not like the fact that her mother -in -law thinks, they say, can visit her when she pleases, so she often stays at home. This week, my daughter asked if she could move to me for a few days and I agreed. My son -in -law has been thirty years old and he has a job, but his mother has not yet handed him or her ownership of an apartment.
He has already spent his own money on repair, kunction of new furniture and household appliances. However, the mother -in -law still believes that she has the right to come when she pleases, because it is her apartment. She does not even report her visits, sometimes it remains for a week or even a month. They live in a close one -room apartment, which complicates the life of each family member. There is no tact in my holy, she is driving her nose everywhere, criticizing and imposing her point of view. She does not seem to be aware of the inconvenience that it creates to everyone, and in no hurry does her business in the city.
Therefore, the daughter comes to get out of us to avoid their mother -in -law’s visits. Although my son -in -law is not delighted with the situation, he can not say anything because it is his mother’s apartment. I can do little to do little because we live in a two -room apartment with my husband, a younger daughter, a son -in -law and two grandchildren. All I can do is offer my daughter a temporary shelter. I worry that frequent visits of mother -in -law will hurt the young couple’s relationship. I even called her once to ask to stop worrying the young, but she refused to listen. I very much hope that they will be able to resolve this issue in the near future and create more comfortable living conditions.