Dear Teacher! The mother of one nine -year -old girl writes to you. Unfortunately, my daughter does not want to go to another group from English. She is small and her girlfriends are more important than bad grades. Please stop telling her that her parents are not trying enough to teach her English. Understand, parents for their children are authorities. And the fact that you are constantly trying to explain that I and her dad are not capable enough, or talented, or more sedentary, but simply speaking – the rushes – destroys my baby. No, I will not come to school anymore to talk about how you ask for a red with a red overclocking handwriting. Because last time you caught me and right under your baby read me for my bad behavior. The mother was read with her baby.

Yes, I justified as a sheep. I don’t want to be a sheep in my baby’s eyes. I want to be strong and reliable. I will tell you a secret-I am in general my mother-panther. She was just afraid that this behavior was not entirely appropriate at school. Therefore, it is better for us not to meet anymore. I threw out the sheep’s skin. I do not know how to explain to a modern school that parents should not do lessons with children at all. And if the child does not work, then it is the problem of the teacher, the mismatch of the program by age, a textbook, high expectations, and so on.

Well well. We will not prove anything and try to do at home. I want to explain to you that her dad, my ex -husband, who visits her twice a week. Yes, he does not always perform the task of a honesty, to be honest, I cannot believe that the scientist cannot do the task in the electronic journal. But we will not spend time proof of his correctness. Ok, he always does not do what you set. Suppose. The daughter is waiting for him and wants to do only with him. And honestly, I am not surprised if they really do German. Or play cards generally. We don’t care. Yes. Generally, I will not blame him for his lack of diligence. And I will not scandal. And no, he does not do “Abjaca”. She will learn English. But he will never return his childhood and communication with his father.

Yes, we are all suited to the three. I personally studied English for the month of life in New York when I was 24. I possess free. Yes, I believe that the current three will not affect its future. No, I do not believe in the “Trijannik”. No, I do not consider perseverance to an important virtue. And Vereshchagina’s textbook seems anti-pedagogical, and, I learn from him in New York, then rather than a consonant would be in Spanish. The question of why other children can learn English by this textbook. Some of the children are talented and have a tendency to languages ​​and even engage in their own successfully master the language. Or, for example, they do it with a tutor. No, I do not consider it necessary to hire a tutor. Because before the arrival of the tutor you need to do additionally, and I do not understand why to do the fact that it does not use the child in life.

And what he has neither abilities nor interest now. Yes, I do not consider all the abilities to develop early. Then, the tutor costs 1500 rubles for classes, ie 3000 per week, 90000 per year. For 7 years, it is almost 10 thousand euros. Summary classes on grammar textbooks and questionable audio. For this money, I can settle my daughter in London and hire a fun young teacher for two months. They will walk in the spring London, covered with yellow daffodils. Do you understand the difference? Just like me, she will learn English in a couple of months. Or just like her father, she will study her by sowing on any American series. That is why in the eyes of our daughter it is so important for us to remain a reliable support. To rely on our experience. Which is much more productive than the school program. Please tell her that we, her parents are cool.