I decided to share my doubts and experiences with you. I am ashamed to talk about it with my girlfriends. I’m 64 years old. I live in a three -room apartment with my son, daughter -in -law and only grandson. In short, I suggested taking a test for my grandchildren in exchange for a gift for my apartment. But my daughter -in -law is against it. About everything in order. My son married quite late at the age of 40. His fiancee is younger than twelve years. As I did not try to persuade him not to associate my life with her, he did not listen to me. My acquaintances and girlfriend were sick that she is windy girl. She met with many guys and men of our city. Therefore, I was not very pleased to be such a daughter -in -law.

But my son stunned me with news that he would soon become a father and we played a wedding. We do not live bad. With the daughter -in -law, we follow the neutrality. But sometimes you have to put it in place. With the birth of her grandson, she tried to leave him on me and go to “take a walk, but I immediately put it in place. I calmly but firmly explained to her that she was her baby and I can occasionally help, but not to take care of her upbringing. Sometimes, sometimes neighbors asked me, I am sure that this boy’s father was my son? When the boy was three years old, we noticed that he did not look like his father. But they are often like children.

I did not work out myself, but the uncertainty settled deeply in me. He was four years old. And during the feast, the daughter -in -law hinted that I rewrite my apartment as a single grandson. I jokingly said that immediately after a positive test for my son’s paternity. As soon as it is documented that he is my son’s son, I immediately make a will for him. Oh, what started here! The daughter -in -law accused me of aging distrust, suspicion and bias. It was said that I need to check my head and many “nice” words. The son looked at me with reproach and led his wife. Well, tell me what I said? Quite a normal requirement or not? Why did she react so?

After all, if she had nothing to hide, she would just agree. The next day, neither the son nor the daughter -in -law talked to me. During the dinner, I tried to talk to them, but they answered me, once I “got to such”, then it is better for them to leave and live separately. Only where will they go? On a removable apartment? It is clear that it is empty words, but I was unpleasant. Whether the daughter -in -law behaves so through the image, whether she has something to hide. Now the idea of ​​a non -native grandson does not allow me to sleep at night. Already visited the idea of ​​taking the hair of a son and grandson and taken to the laboratory. But this is expensive, and I am afraid of the test. Here’s how to live with this now? How do you look at your grandson not to think that he is a stranger in this house? Give advice on how to understand this daughter -in -law’s behavior?