I will not hide that in most cases the boys are already in advance to have their wife. This is why numerous anecdotes, stereotypes and stories of friends who have already got a family. I think it will not be a secret for anyone: the default between the mother -in -law and the son -in -law should go the Cold War. Naturally, I was sure that this fate would not bypass me. When I went to get acquainted with Ali’s family, my future wife, I didn’t expect anything good. When he found himself in the apartment, I realized that he was not mistaken. Yulia Petrovna is still a young woman, well -groomed, looks younger than her years, beautifully dressed, with a good haircut … And with such a look that it immediately became clear: she, as it would be softer to speak – a little prickly. The first conversation was tense. The future mother -in -law has raised questions about my education, earnings, lifestyles.

It was clearly disappointed that I was an orphan, grew up in an orphanage. But when I heard about how much I earn, she shook. And I make good. I was educated by an engineer, I work as a programmer in a large foreign organization, my salary is almost three times more than the average in the city. After the first meeting with Yulia Petrovna, of course, I was convinced that all heard stories – pure true. Yes, while I bring money, I will tolerate me. If something happens, then she will “eat my patience with a teaspoon”, her daughter will squeeze that I don’t need it. Everything is expected. I will just minimize personal communication and everything will be fine. I made this decision after dating. Yulia Petrovna was restrained. She did not climb, she said that she wanted her daughter happiness. She gave us a modest amount of money. Everything went fine. He was afraid that he would be worse. The first year of family life was like in a fairy tale. We lived in the alleys in my soul. I allowed myself a lot, I made good.

Trips, hiking to restaurants, expensive things for my wife … I did not spare money. They took the apartment without any loans and the like, I have long postponed this purchase. However, it was enough only for one -room, but for starters it is not bad. And the problems began. My company has started to reduce the number of employees through a crisis. Fortunately, I was not released. I was afraid of it. But the chief immediately said that I was a price worker and I will only be released if the company is completely closed. But the salary decreased significantly than before. Alya somehow gradually changed his attitude to me. I was constantly dissatisfied, reproached that I was not a man, once I cannot provide her with a habitual lifestyle.

I forgively Alya. I love her, moreover, she grew up in a rich family. Used to a certain level of income. And I am her husband, I have to provide her with what she needs. And then I got sick. This damn “hello” from China picked up at work. Everything was difficult, he could not get out of bed. But the hospital did not reach. He could not work, the customers got rid of. What is the job when you can’t sit straight? Alya immediately left… to mom. She said she didn’t want to get infected. I stayed alone. In a state in which even tea is difficult to pour for yourself. And to my great surprise an hour after Alya escaped, her mother came to me … I didn’t want to let. After all, I worried about her. But she didn’t want to hear anything. She managed to lift the best doctors, bought all the medicines that had to lift me on her feet. I ordered a delicious food that I still couldn’t appreciate because of the loss of smell …

It turned out that Yulia Petrovna once worked as a nurse. So she knew perfectly what she needed to do. She looked after me a week like a baby. I was surprised to realize that she treats me like a mother, whom I never had. She asked to forgive Alya, they say, she is still a baby at all, it is necessary to wait for her growing up. She told me that she respected me, and the negative that I could feel – just jealousy … I went to the correction. My mother -in -law lived a week, controlled the condition. By the way, everything is fine with her. Alya returned only when I finally recovered. I began to think that I made too hurrying the decision, marrying her. But Yulia Petrovna is now my close friend, and I will communicate with her even in the case of divorce with her daughter.