People take children from the orphanage, and I decided to pick up someone else’s grandmother from the house for the elderly. On that day, all relatives stopped communicating with me. Only I hear from my family: – Now such times, and so life is hard, and you have also brought your old man in the house! No one now goes to visit us. But I do not understand that I have made my relatives do not support me now, laugh at my back, say that I lost my mind. And that’s what. Everyone takes children from a kindergarten, and I decided to pick up another’s grandmother from the nursing home. None of friends and neighbors approved my act. Everyone, as one twisted with your finger near the temple with the words: – Now such times, and so life is difficult, and you also took yourself a slack in the house! But I am sure that I did the right thing. This is my life and I make the choice of how best. But it is sad that relatives have differently treated me as if I was asking for money or help.

And I do not take anything from anyone. Earlier, we lived in four: I, my two daughters and my mom. Unfortunately, 8 months ago, my mom, whom we loved all very much, did not have remained three. During these months, we realized that we have a lot of effort and time and we can spend them on the help of another person. From school, I had a close friend who was 30 years old, instead of building a family and a career, just spoiled my life. The saddest thing he lived, as his mother’s pension wanted. When she stopped giving her, he just handed her to the nursing house, somehow having lured her apartment in her, and let the money in the wind. For several years he lived irrelevant, without denying himself, and then the money was over, and he did not mention his mother, he was indifferent to her, he did not even know if she was still in the world. I knew Aunt Paradise since my childhood, as she was me. Once a month with their daughters came to visit her and brought a variety of goodies. Aunt Rai rejoiced in our visits as a young child, but no one came to her. My daughter’s idea was reacted with a huge positive, and the younger Svetlana, who is now 5 years old and screamed at all:

– Hooray, we will have a grandmother again! But you can’t even imagine how aunt Rai reacted to my idea! She cried for so long that she had to reassure her. It is now almost 2 months old, as we have been living with my grandmother Raya’s soul. We all love her, and she is us. Only we can not understand where the grandmother, who has been eight years old, is so much energy. After all, it gets up at 6 am daily, and we wake up under the aroma of freshly baked pancakes or fritters. She does all the work at home, though I do not ask for it. She washes dishes, prepares us to eat. Gives me the whole pension so that I buy products and pay communal, because she does not go to the store, it is difficult for her. And relatives even stopped visiting me. It seems that everyone was dismissed, but I did nothing wrong with anyone.