My husband and I lived in my apartment, my parents bought me a long time ago, even when I studied. Now they live a little, so they do not have such abundance. But my mother -in -law, every time he comes to visit us, does not forget to blame me that parents could also repair at least some furniture and cheap to buy, because the apartment is in such a bad condition. One day I hinted, if she does not like something, then she can make repairs and furniture help us to buy. And the mother of her husband was constantly justified that she was not married, her son grew herself, so there is no such abundance to help us. And recently, her husband’s mother came to us and began to complain that she had been released from work, she is now looking for a new job, but at her age it is not easy, because it does not want to take her to work.

When she went home, her husband said that we needed a mom to help, because she needed money to pay for utilities and buy products. My Gregory earns more than I, so I thought that there would be nothing wrong if he would give my mother some money. Since then, the man at the end of the month when he receives his salary, he transfers 4 thousand hryvnias to his mother. The man’s mother is grateful to us for that; She said she would help us in everything. Then she found a job – a dispatcher on her phone from home. They pay pennies there, but this money is very important for her. A little mom made money, and her son also gave her money, her mother -in -law had enough. And then she told us that she met Andrei Ivanovich, he is a very good person, divorced, adult children, he left his apartment nobility his wife.

And then he moved to his mother. We had a daughter, my mother -in -law helped us a little, and then less often agreed to sit with his granddaughter. When our girl went to the garden, I went to work. She went there just a week and then became ill. We asked the mother of her husband to sit with her these days. The next morning, the mother -in -law, as promised, came. On the second day too. And on the third day the man went to work, I wait, I see that I am late, and there is no mom. The bell – the phone does not take, the man also does not answer. And then Andrey Ivanovich himself was recruited and said that my mother -in -law is not to blame and not obliged to sit with our baby. I put the phone and then called to work, explained the situation and stayed at home. The next day has agreed with our neighbor, she is already a woman in retirement,

Whatever, when we have similar situations, she sat with a baby, and I was able to go to work. Of course, we agreed that I will pay her for it. The neighbor gladly agreed, because the extra penny will need. On September 1, my mother -in -law called my husband, asked why he did not list her 4 thousand hryvnias, as he always did, they needed money, there is no need to buy bread for bread, because Andrey Ivanovich could not find a month of work and they could not break the car. And Gregory told her mother that we were not to blame. If she does not have time for her children, then let her hope only for her husband for the old age. It may be ugly. But we do not see another way out.