I have been living with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I am 28 years old, and he is 33 years old. We seem to be at the appropriate age to create a family and birth of children, but there is no marriage and a common future of language. He was already married once and does not want to do it again. He states that he should know me better to understand if I would be a good mistress … At first I was against cohabitation and “test regime”, but after I realized that he did not want to develop our relationship otherwise, I agreed to move to him.

The young man lives in an apartment that got to him from his uncle. This is not a very large apartment, but for two of us is enough. Before we came to, I explained my position: “I agree to live with you a maximum of a year, and then I want to hear your choice – if not, then we part out not to waste time.” He is neglect, but as if he agreed. He was soon fired from work at will. I was on his side and tried to help him in a difficult moment, so I decided to postpone our arrangement by better times.

And he even forgot about it. He has not yet found constant work, because many companies in our city have closed this year. He wants to work only in his industry and is not interested in working as a taxi driver or courier on the side. All costs on me. I barely have time. After all, communal costs, food and other unforeseen costs too. He believes that a loving woman should support and help her boyfriend. But he is not even a man, and I don’t know if they will ever. Tell me how to be?