Once again, a wealthy story about a large single mother, who needs financial assistance, is in the news feed. The names in the stories are different, but the essence of one: 3-5 children, the man escaped, they do not take to work, because children, and in general work, once, because children. There are no relatives with money, so – help people good …! I read it, swore on the subject of female stupidity and arrogance, and suddenly heard from friends that I was cruel, because as a woman should understand the poor, and all the men – goats!

It was long! No, well, why should I regret and financially help a stupid grandmother who learned to multiply, but did not learn and earn money? She was forcibly forced to give birth in so much? She did not understand how much money it took to keep such a crowd of children? Oh, well, she had a husband. That is, married, and you can multiply in unlimited quantities, because a man should keep his children?

And someone asked the man if he wanted so many children? Will he be able to earn so much? The wife is not aware of how much a man earns and will everyone have enough? Well, let’s say, accidentally became pregnant, happens, did not plan, but to sit down and discuss with your husband another replenishment – so difficult? Are you against abortion because God gave the children? So why should someone else be feeding your children and not you and God? The man, so bad, escaped? So you planned everything without him.

By the way, why not many mothers consider a man’s loss for various reasons in advance? It is always likely to stay one with children, what are you going to do then? The man also participated in conception and should he help? If you do not agree in advance whether you want children or not, whether a man against condoms, control your body yourself – there are pills, spirals. But it seems that you just make it convenient to be married and under this sauce, hanging the provision of children on anyone, except yourself. Multiply with your mind! To take away your children a carefree childhood is a very irresponsible act!