I have a daughter, his name is Helen. Elena goes to grade 3. We live in a metropolis, so we always take our daughter to school and take home. She is a little man in this huge city, so we never let her go. Everything was always good, Elena got along well with classmates and teachers, though she was not the soul of the company. But there is always one (and maybe more) “but”. Once, when we came home, she started crying and saying that a 4th grade boy would insult her. It can be called ugly words, can throw a book or bag, happens to a braid, pulls. We talked to our wife and decided to give the children to understand themselves. But it was our mistake. The guy began not just to get Olenka, but went to hand. He started pushing his daughter and beat.

And the boy was quite overall and at times stronger than a small, fragile girl. I decided that it was time to act, not to leave it all. Talking with the teacher Olenka, she came to the director. But it did not help. We were advised that Elena simply did not leave the class at breaks and all. It’s an absurdity! She should sit in the classroom and not go out through any bully who is unable to communicate normally with children? He beats and offends not only my Olenka, but also other children from her class. You decided to beat the smaller because they are weaker. So I did what you can start condemning me for. But I am more than sure that it would not help to speak, nor punishment of parents, nor a conversation with a psychologist. I started teaching my daughter’s techniques of self -defense. How to break out, how to block blows or delight.

And he showed one technique that causes bleeding from the nose. Not critical, but I know perfectly how Zhum is scared by its very appearance. Olenka is a sports girl who has long gone to gymnastics, so she has strength. And the type of blood she is not afraid, in any situation holds, keeps a cold mind. That’s how I trained my daughter for about 5 days and the day of X. When he came to school, hearing the next unpleasant words and receiving the footers, besides the strong, Elena decided that it was time for him to pay for all the images. And, as I taught her, I was strongly charged the abuser in my nose. Yes, so that the blood went with a stream. Fear, panic, he was taken to the health center. The parents came and immediately went with her son and teacher to the class of Elena. He mournfully pointed his finger on Elena and his parents began to clap.

Like she dared to hit their son. Elena tried to explain that he started the first, but her parents did not want to listen. Then other children began to get up, tell what and how he did, how he offended them. Each of the offended children told everything. The boy never apologized, his parents too, but after these events he does not touch anyone, but quietly plays in the phone in games. You can condemn me, but I think that it is not the words that such guys are able to handle. Until someone repels, he will not understand. After all, he thinks that he will be nothing for his actions. Elena no longer used power, but now has a good skill for the future. It is better to be armed and never use it than disarmed in a difficult situation.