I understand that many people will not understand me. Although, there will be those who think wisely, think about their children and grandchildren, not just about their interests. I never expected that I would marry a person whom the mother would have – is completely indifferent to my loved ones. As I understand, family values ​​and traditions were not important to her since they married my husband’s father. She didn’t even try to keep her family when her husband, my husband, was very few years old. His father went to another woman, apparently because of his wife’s indifference, and she did not hold him, at least for her son to have a father. So he grew up – only under the supervision of his mother. Even his grandmother does not remember her – she rarely came to them. Honestly, I was very surprised when I saw my future mother -in -law for the first time. She was 46 years old at the time. Imagine: bleached hair, kilogram of mascara on the eyelashes and red lipstick.

And the character of the same is not a gift. The nails are long and red, the ring runs. Well, in general, the profession makes itself known, she works in the beauty salon. After our modest wedding, we began to live with her husband’s mother. But without warm home evenings and a common tea. In the morning, she went to work, because she works only until dinner, and in the afternoon she always has things: fitness, then bachelorette, then parties, then workshops, then a date. I asked once, “Do you not get tired in your years so run?” She replies: “What are my years?” He almost does not eat at home – only coffee with a sandwich for a snack. And a year after the wedding, I learned that I was waiting for a baby. Just under the New Year, two years ago. I was not good then, I lay, and she dances with her girlfriends in the room. My husband did not realize that he was calling my mother with me, and she: “Nothing, it will pass soon, maybe something is wrong!”

And when she found out that she was somehow disappointed with me, “Well, in vain! They would live for at least a little! ”. And no drops of admiration. Otaka’s grandmother here. Nothing has changed with the birth of a grandson. Work, fitness, girlfriends. The granddaughter of her mother was hardly approached: “Ah-ag!” Once from work, the baby screams, and I have a bunch of linen in the washing machine. And it stands near the plate, in Turka coffee cooks. I say, “Mom, you will not hold the baby, will I hang the linen?” And she does not pay attention to my words. I approach, and in her ears headphones for all volume. And then she quickly drank coffee, dressed and fled. I complain to the man, he shrugs – they say, well, you know our mother. The baby grew up, but as always from our mother, there was no attention.

She said that she was not a nanny, young people should live their lives, and if they decided to have a baby, then they should be raised. She stopped at home, and half a year ago, she gathered things, said goodbye, and went to some man. That’s right. And now she planned to marry him. And the grandson is not needed, and we never gave rest. It rarely goes, behind some thing, waves his grandson’s hand and escapes. My mom lives very far – it takes a long time to drive. She would be a wonderful grandmother, but she can’t come – complains about health. But I know, she would gladly sit with her grandson, and the pies would bake and knit socks. By the way, she has already sent knitted things. And, by the way, she is only 4 years older than my mother -in -law.

She also parted with my father, only when he grew me up, my mother kept my family for me and my older brother. She never behaved like my husband my husband. I am very offended by my husband’s mom. She has no drop of pity, pity and worry. She lives her life, thinks only about herself. And at her age, you need to think about children, help them, live their lives. I try to talk about it with my husband, to ask her to come to us, to be with a baby to let us go for a walk in the evening, then she may wake up her grandmother’s instinct. And what about the old age gathered, and what will people say about us? Is she not ashamed at all? But the man refuses and does not want to talk about this topic. Sorry! We have a grandmother. But old age is inevitable. I wonder how she sings then?