I was born and grew up in the village. Subsequently, she went to study in the city, entered the university. When she graduated, I did not want to return to the village at all, then I was used to urban life. I believed that there is nothing to do in the village in the village, there was no prospects for a young man. There is practically no work, Zarnlat is very small. And in the city it was much more interesting, and the work could be found and worthy of Zarnlat. Of course, I wanted to live in the city. I met with my husband, Michael, when I was already working at my work after the university. He was local because he was born in this city. Michael lived in his own apartment, which he was killed by his father with his mother. I was lucky with my husband, and it is also good that Michael had his apartment. Michael was hardworking and simple. He loved to go to my parents often to the village. He constantly tried to help everyone’s mother -in -law with his father -in -law.

The man’s family is also urban people, they never had. Therefore, it was very interesting for Michael in the village with my parents. It so happened that moms were not a hundred, but dad left alone. But for a few years, his father had already done something to do something, he had to help more. I was waving, I wanted to take my dad to the city, but it did not want to leave home, my father wanted to live in the village. He did not want to leave his home and go to the city. I didn’t know what to do, what I didn’t think, and did not talk to my dad. I could not leave everything and go to the village, because I have my own family in the city – and work. A neighbor Maria came to me then. She has long been a long time ago, she did not have her children. He lives in an old parent house.

She offered me her own doom, because her dad was always good in everything, she helped her all the time. I did not want to give a lot of trouble to another person and ask her to look after the old father. But Maria explained that she would not be heavy to bring him a bowl of soup or porridge, and I would bring products. I agreed, because there was no choice. Michael and I always came when it was possible. Helped everyone. They brought food, because I cooked a lot at home, gave rroshi as possible. Michael did all the work with the farm, he became very early. We have never refused anything to my father or Mary, because she lived alone, so we also helped her when we were able to, during this time, we and this person and this person were very happy. I understood how to care for a sloping person, but Mary didn’t tell me anything.

Therefore, when Dad was not a lot, I gave his house for Mary. She had a very old hut, there was already a fleeing ceiling, and the wall swayed. And Mary is still a young woman, let him use. Michael was fully supported in this decision. She gave a lot of strength, she looked after my old father for almost 4 years. Although he was a completely alien person for her. When the family learned about my decision – all in one voice began to criticize my decision that it is impossible for us to give a house to a person. But most of all, my mother -in -law took me; Now they are constantly renovating me that I live in the apartment of a man, and gave my house to strangers. But I sincerely think I have done humanly.