Dima and I got married when both were Stable Finance, so when the children were born with us with Rroshim, there were no problems. During my older daughter, I took maternity leave. I had difficult to do with her, because Varenki had stomach problems. I did not sleep at all, I did not have time to cook or clean. The mother -in -law lived nearby, so I asked her for help so that she sat with Varas a little while I will at least make dinner or pick. -Your children are your problem. Hire a nanny. Kat, you know that I am to you, how absolutely a stranger, so why should I donat you? She told me at my request. Well, my mom didn’t throw me. She came every day from another area to get me out of Varangia.

When the daughter was two years old, everything was settled. I went to work, but soon I had to go to Dekret again, because I was born a boy. My mom did not stop me, I was always around. The children loved my grandmother Masha, but they practically did not know my mother -in -law. Antonina came only on holidays. She was strictly forbidden to call herself a grandmother, only by name. When the children went to school, my mother took them from school, did lessons with them, and then waited for us to work with a delicious dinner. But one day she felt bad, made a stroke. I had to get rid of work to look after her. The man supported me in every possible way. A month later, I managed to put my mother on my feet.

She stayed with us. Because I planned to go to work, and the children had to leave with someone. Nothing heralded the troubles, as a mother -in -law on the dance fell and broke her leg. I came to her in a lyric, brought products, but not more. After the discharge, her husband took her home, she was surprised, because she thought I would look after her. – House, why not Katie? She will come tomorrow? Will it stay with me? She asked her husband. – No. The caregiver will come tomorrow. Katya is not obliged to sit with you. You treated her as a stranger, so she is the same. I will stay with you today and then I will come after work. The mother -in -law did not expect this attitude. After that, she stopped communicating with me. She maintained with her grandchildren only through the Dima.