
I noticed that my daughter stopped calling me for children. And after the next opportunity, I decided to ask directly. My daughter’s answer struck me
Somehow, her daughter hinted to me that her husband did not approve of my frequent visits. Like, they are young, they work a lot and want to relax alone. These words wounded me, but I didn’t quarrel. My grandson Sergius’s birthday was approaching. I thought I would be invited to visit, prepared a gift for him, stroked a festive costume. But no one called in advance. Then I got the number myself to congratulate the baby and did not hear the invitation. The same story was repeated with his granddaughter. And I didn’t understand what was happening. She hid gifts in a sideboard, thinking about giving them at all.
She did not stand it recently and asked her daughter straight: – I don’t understand, I offended you something? – Mom, what are you talking about? – Well, why don’t you invite me to children? To whom I bought these gifts, myself? – Ah, you’re about it! No, just children now like to celebrate with their classmates. They have already grown up and the company of the elderly is not interested in them! – But I’m my grandmother! I understood with pain that my daughter was probably right. Oh is a generation. How does she bring them up, where is the respect for her relatives? In addition to a girlfriend there is no one else to complain about their lives.
And she is always positive in me and says that I am not worried, because life is too short to spend it on insults. – You find your husband better! Do you know what miracles love? You will feel like then, at 20 years old! – Vasylivna assured. And I sit on the sofa in the evening. I get old photo albums and cry. As the time changed, a few years ago, my daughter joyfully traveled to me with her grandchildren, left them on the weekend and we went for a walk, and then sculpted the dumplings together. And now it turns out that I do not need anyone! How to explain to my daughter that my mother should love and respect?