Having lived with my wife 13, I decided to break. We married very young: I was 22, Mary – 20. Two children were married. While the children were small, we were united by their care. But the children have grown up and every day we and my wife are getting away from each other. I believed that our relationships had exhausted themselves. There were only misunderstandings between us. Recently, we couldn’t even talk normally. It seemed to me that this marriage was a mistake. That Mary as a wife does not fit me. That we have nothing to do. Her behavior of the dragon fell me. I ceased to like everything she did. One day, I decided that we needed a rose. But the division decided to postpone. Comrade suggested that I go abroad for work for six months. I agreed, I decided and work and at the same time think. And after that I decided to put a point – to break. The wife knew nothing. I had to voice her “Surprise” after arriving. I was in a foreign country for six months.

I encountered new people, their customs, mentality, customs. I plunged into an unusual situation. I absorbed the impression and accumulated a new experience. There I met face-to-face with loneliness, with myself, my feasts, anxieties, hopes and dreams. Late in the evening, being busy work, I was thinking about life. I was alone for the first time so long. First the parent family. Then the school and classmates. Then the company of friends and the first girl. Classmates and a new girl. Then his wife, children. A whole life near me was someone. I was inseparable from other people, so I knew myself. The alone gave me the opportunity to get acquainted with myself. And I was uncomfortable and unusual. Then I decided to find someone. He justified himself: the fate of my marriage was still resolved. So why not find another woman? He met, easy relationships began. Irina, like me, was visiting, but has been living abroad for 15 years. Beautiful, smart, she immediately attracted my attention. But not for a long time. In New Nasia, it is easy for me to first, and then more, it was a grievous to wrap all that the annoying me for my wife.

The situations began to be repeated by one, as with his wife. There were Nono -understanding themselves. Soon the new relationship was completely over: it’s time to fly home. I didn’t want to continue them. Moreover, I had already changed my mind with my wife. He understood himself, rethinked, cooled down, sliced ​​and understood the most important thing. If in different people Dra is the same, if the situations are repeated, and non -understanding arises on the same soil, perhaps, it is not in other people, but in me. I looked at my wife with other eyes. She began to seem easy, cheerful, simple, kind and open. Who would have thought that six months ago, I was sure that the wife of weight was lifted, poor Volena Life, a short -lived and a draft influx. Long -lasting loneliness helped me to understand myself. It became easier for me to understand others and not design their own, disappointment and look on them. Mary became one and unique to me again. The only thing I had to go this difficult way to understand.